Bedroom Leadership Manual

You’re reading this because your wife is boring in bed, and she makes all kinds of arbitrary rules for you during sex that annoy the hell out of you.

Things like “Don’t touch my hair” or “I’m not sucking that, it’s been inside of me”.

You have all kinds of crazy shit you want to try with her but it feels like you’re walking on eggshells whenever you do have sex, and you expect her to shut all of your adventurous plans down the second you start.

You’ve convinced yourself that she just isn’t the kind of woman who swallows cum, does anal, or likes to be choked during sex, because this is easier for your ego to take.

But any woman will do any of those things, and more, under the right conditions.

To act like that a woman needs to be completely turned on by you and lost in the moment.

She also needs to see you as ‘that kind of guy’ in bed, who has the balls to do all kinds of crazy stuff.

So right now you feel stuck in a kind of ‘vanilla box’ with your wife.

You think that she’ll respond badly if you try to step out of this vanilla prison. Which makes you too scared to try because you don’t want to have to deal with any awkward bad reactions from her.

This is a terrible way to go through your marriage. Completely sexually unsatisfied and frustrated, with a massive unchecked bucket list of sexual activities waiting to be expereinced.

I can show you how to:

1. Break character and step out of that ‘vanilla box’ you feel stuck in both inside and outside of the bedroom.
2. Prevent her from getting awkward when you start to ‘break character’.
3. Handle any objections she throws your way if she does still get awkward when you ‘break character’.
4. Sexualise her to massively boost her sexual confidence, so that she herself can ‘break character’ and become a freak in bed.

What has happened with your wife is that she currently sees you as a certain type of guy in bed, so she only gets as adventurous as she thinks you ‘deserve’ based on how you act and your own perception of yourself.

So to help you break character and step out of this ‘vanilla box’ I will show you EXACTLY what to do/say, how to do/say it, when to do/say it and why to do/say it. 

Every step of the path to no-limits sex with your wife will be illuminated and broken down clearly for you, as I have done this myself, and helped many many clients do the same thing with their own wives.

And remember why you want to do this freaky kind of stuff in bed…

It’s not the activities themselves that you want, it’s what they imply that you’re after.

Having your wife wear a butt plug, deepthroat your dick and then swallow your cum is about the enthusiasm that this demonstrates from her about you.

When a woman is happy and willing to have crazy, no-limits sex, it implies that she is in awe of her man and wants to please him.

That’s why men crave activities like this, because they want to see her go the extra mile and wow him.

And make no mistake, she wants to do this too, but she needs to be inspired first and then made fully comfortable with her most primitive, sexual side. Which is what I’m going to teach you all about in this program.

Crazy, no-limits sex creates an UNBREAKABLE bond between 2 people and this basically divorce proofs your marriage completely.

Sex really is relationship glue, and you need the highest quality stuff if you want to stick together.

So like I was saying earlier, there’s just ONE thing that you have to do to turn your wife into a ‘freak’ in bed…

You have to turn yourself into a ‘freak’ first and ‘break character’.

This allows her to feel comfortable with expressing her unrestricted wild side in bed, because she then knows you'll be able to handle it.

And here’s the exact process I’ll take you through to do that:

1. Getting her to ‘chase’ you for sex by getting you to chase your mission instead of her.
2. Spiking her emotions so that she is sexually charged and fired up. (Women are emotion junkies)
3. Turning you into a smooth leader who is brimming with a new found sexual confidence.
4. Giving you the exact steps needed to completely sexualise her and lead her through anything you like during sex.

Those are the 4 key stages of the program.

This will allow you to make these 2 extremely important dynamic shifts in your marriage…

1. You’ll be happily seen as a ‘Bad Boy’ by her, who is 100x more sexual than you used to be. ('Bad Boy' is a cringeworthy term yes, but it's the best term to describe the process)
2. You’ll have her see herself as a ‘Bad Girl’ who is 100x more confident and open minded when it comes to sex.

Once these 2 essential mindset shifts have taken place for you both, THEN you can have Pornstar style sex involving...

• Anal
• Swallowing
• Bondage
• Choking
• Getting rough
• Sex toys
• Spitting
• Dirty talking
• Public sex

Anything you want to introduce her to, is possible once she sees you as a ‘Bad Boy’ in bed.

That’s the big goal here.

When you work with me, I’ll hone you like a spear to become this ‘Bad Boy’ character who has the exact kind of sex that he wants to have, with his willing and enthusiastic wife.

But I know what you’re thinking… “How can I break character and become someone different to my wife after multiple years of marriage?”

There’s 2 keys to doing this:

1. A sense of humour and playfulness. These lower the pressure for your wife and gamify the process a little.
2. A pair of balls. You do need to have the courage to constantly step yourself and your wife out of your comfort zones every day for this to work, but I’ll show you exactly how to handle it all and what to say.

Turning yourself into a ‘Bad Boy’ is a fun process, it’s not a serious one, as that would defeat the whole point.

You can no longer be the hesitant, cautious, timid, vanilla guy in bed.

No.

You have to stick a shit eating grin on your face and start playing around with a new persona, confidently and unapologetically.

I’ll show you exactly how to do this, no awkward conversations with your wife needed.

Now, before you look at some of my client’s results and the content that you’re going to get when you start...

Read These Frequently Asked Questions About The Program First:

1. Who Exactly Is This Program For?

If your wife is awkward, vanilla and unadventurous during sex, and you want to turn her into a 'no-limits freak' then this is for you.

This program is NOT for you if:

• You don't live together with your wife for some reason
• You believe your wife's words about her sexual limits, rather than observing her actions
• You or her have some kind of medical condition restricting the sex
• You aren't willing to develop a sharp sense of humour and grow a bigger pair of balls to 'risk' your marriage
• You blame your wife for the vanilla sex rather than yourself

This program IS for you if:

• You 100% MUST experience top tier sex with your wife in your lifetime
• You want to gamify your sex life and see the whole thing as a sexual adventure with your wife
• You have a raging libido that needs a physical way to express itself through freaky sex

2. What Is The Exact Process You Will Be Taken Through?

You'll be taken through a 4 stage process:

1. How to make her chase you for your time, attention and sex.
2. How to spike her emotions to make her feel fully alive and turned on.
3. How to lead her smoothly, and break out of the 'vanilla box' that you're both stuck in.
4. How to take her through anything in the bedroom and make her love it.
   

You'll be shown how to nail those 4 key aspects so that you can unlock her complete open mindedness during sex.

3. How Long Will It Take To See A Result?

Big improvements in your wife's sexual confidence and open mindedness are going to take 1-3 months to really notice.

But you will get small wins from your wife literally the same day you start putting the steps into practice, as I've laid the action steps out for some really quick wins.

4. How Much Work Is Required Of You?

You'll have to read the guides and implement them 'all day everyday' but what this means really is that the instructions I'll give you are to be integrated into your daily life.

Initially you will have to make an effort and change your behaviour consciously, but within a month of using the guides you will have most of it running on autopilot.

5. What Experience Do I Have To Teach This Topic?

Not only have these methods been used successfully by 100s of my clients, but I have been through those same painfully awkward moments that you’re experiencing right now.

The feeling of walking on eggshells with your wife during sex when you're trying to get her to try something but she keeps shaking you off or turning you down.

So I know the frustration of having 'rules' and limits placed on me by a woman during sex.

After many years of testing things with ex-girlfriends and now my wife, I've figured out the exact 'formula' to fixing this, like a Scientist in the laboratory that is my bedroom.

6. Do I Only Teach What I Know?

Yes. The instructions you’ll get have been tried and tested by me in my own life.

You won’t be getting instructions on how to invite a bunch of 20 year old female models around to your house to bang you and your wife, because I haven’t done that and couldn’t advise you on how to do that.

Extreme example, but you get my point.

7. What Will Your Sex Life Look Like After Implementing This Program?

1. She'll see you as a 'Bad Boy' in bed who openly expresses himself sexually without hesitation or awkwardness.
2. You'll be able to smoothly handle any little objections she throws your way during sex and turn them into yes's over multiple sex sessions.
3. You’ll no longer be tempted to watch freaky pornos, living vicariously through pixels on a screen.
4. You'll be shown how to have have 'sex' with your wife everyday. These are what I call 'Micro-Sex Sessions'.
5. Your bedroom will become your 'laboratory' for experimenting with your wife.
6. You’ll be 'invited' by your wife to initiate sex with her 1-2 times per week.

8. Why Is The Program This Price?

Sex is the glue of the relationship. If you are held together by crappy, boring 'glue' then you're slowly but surely heading for a divorce. This program costs significantly less than a divorce will cost you.

And there is the even more expensive intangible cost of never getting to experience truly no-limits sex with the woman you love.

No more whacking off to adventurous Pornstars, wishing they were your wife.

9. Is There A Guarantee With This Program?

Yes, if you get stuck with the program materials you will not be left in the dark. You can reach out in the following ways and I will get back to you within 24 hours...

• Main Program clients can reach out via email with any questions.
• Deluxe Program clients can reach out via email or via the 'Ask Your Questions' section in my private community.
• Private Community clients have full private community access and can ask questions within the group.
• 1 On 1 Coaching clients have direct private messenger access to me.

There is no money back guarantee. This is to encourage a full commitment from you.

(My smaller programs have a money back guarantee however, so you can start with one of those and use it to get a discount on this one, if this is important to you)

10. Is This Program Just A Rehash Of My Tweets?

No. My Twitter accounts will give you ideas, but this program shows you exactly how to carry them out step by step.

I don’t share these steps on Twitter.

11. Can You Do All Of This Without Having To Talk To Your Wife About It?

Yes. This program has been created to be discreet on purpose. Your wife doesn't have to do ‘anything’ as that's your job.

You will smoothly and non-verbally boost her sexual confidence and I'll show you how to handle any awkward moments you might encounter when doing this.

12. What If Your Wife Has Explicitly Said She Will Not Try A Particular Activity In The Bedroom?

Unless there is a medical issue or some kind of deep psychological trauma, then this refusal from her is simply about her not being turned on enough.

This program will show you how to get your wife into what I call a ‘sexual frenzy’ so that you can easily introduce her to new activities and for her to actually want to try them.

Women have 2 minds around sex, their everyday, safe, polite mind and their worked up, animalistic mind.

When your wife claims to not want to do a certain activity it is usually her safe, everyday mind that is speaking, so she needs to be brought fully into the present moment and be turned on to change this.

13. Medical Issues Are What's Causing Your Bedroom Issues, Will This Program Work For You?

Unfortunately not, I recommend that you seek professional medical treatment first.

14. Will This Program Work If Your Wife Works A 9-5 And You Have 3 Kids And A Dog To Raise?

Yes. But of course it is going to be a little harder for you to create more sexual moments with her when there is so much on her plate.

However, I can show you how to become her source of 'Escapism' in bed.

15. What Happens As Soon As You Purchase?

The 'Content Only' option is all available here on Gumroad, neatly laid out in order for you to start working through.

(The content is a collection of clear, step by step PDF guides, some of which contain illustrations and animations to help with implementation.)

For Private Community and 1 on 1 clients, the links to join the group will be the first thing you see in the 'Private Community' section presented on Gumroad. Then you can log in and start asking any questions you have right away.

The private community is hosted on Mighty Networks. You can access it via both your phone or your PC. There is also a Mighty Networks app you can use to access the community.

16. Do You Have To Work Through ALL Of The Content In The Program?

No. I've designed it so that you can work through it entirely or pick and choose what you need, when you need it.

I'm an autodidact in my own life and I've noticed that all of my clients are the same. So if you like DIY style content and working at your own pace with clear, focused action steps to follow, you're going to fucking love this program.

17.Can I Talk To Somebody Before I Purchase?

Yes, simply send an email to clientcare@dominantpolarity.com or send a direct message to my Twitter account @polarityperfect and I'll answer any questions you have before you begin.

18. Why Is VAT Added On To The Price At The End?

Gumroad adds different rates of VAT onto the listed price depending on where it detects you are logging in from in the world. The rates vary from 0% to +20% depending on what nationality of IP address you are currently using.

19. Is There A Way To Work 1 On 1 With Me?

Yes. Select the '1 On 1 Coaching' option and you'll have direct 1 on 1 access to me within the program group.

The coaching is text based and involves you giving me a brief summary of your situation when you start so that I can tailor make guides to suit your specific needs.

You can then drop me questions and updates whenever you need to and I'll get back to you within 24 hours.

You will have unlimited access to me and there are no renewal fees or expiration dates.

20. What's The Difference With 1 On 1 Coaching?

When you become a 1 on 1 coaching client you're paying to have your specific situation analysed by me, a tailor made action plan put in place for you to follow, and then me holding you accountable to ensure you keep pushing forward.

You can reach out to me daily for as long as you need to and I'll leave no stone unturned in helping you turn things around with your wife in the bedroom.

21. Will Your Privacy Be Protected?

Yes 100%. You can use a made up name when reaching out with any questions and you will always be asked before I share any screenshots, even if you're using a made up name.

Due to the nature of this topic I take my client's privacy extremely seriously and understand that this isn't something to parade out in public.

Here’s Proof From My Clients That This 'Bad Boy' Transformation Works…

(These testimonials are anonymous because this is a sensitive and private issue, and I'll treat you with the same respect when you start. No private messages will be shared without your permission.)

Keep in mind that these clients went from never experiencing these things with their wife, to getting her to try them using my step by step process.

1. Get her talking dirty, using anal beads and then trying anal.

2. Get her trying anal sex for sure.

3. Get her trying new positions, even seemingly 'easy' things like this aren't always easy for her.

4. Learn how to be fun but firm with her and watch when she starts to follow your lead like this.

5. Learn how to introduce rough sex without scaring the crap out of her. Incrementally.

6. Watch as your new bedroom leadership skills rub off outside of the bedroom as well.

7. Learn how to introduce her to begin choked and handled roughly with some very subtle techniques to start with.

8. Learn to just go for it and get her into a 'sexual frenzy'.

9. Know what you want in bed and she'll start to follow your lead like this.

10. Get the confidence from the step by step guides to just go for it.

11. Learn how to use tension to get what you want during sex.

12. Do her correctly and she'll become more feminine AND more adventurous.

13. Get more enthusiastic blowjobs from her.

14. Get your old lover back from when you first met.

15. Learn how to manhandle her smoothly, without freaking her out.

16. Get her into a sexual frenzy and watch what happens.

17. Learn how to introduce her to anal sex.

18. Make her submit, command her and take her through anal sex.

19. Use the affirmations to get her talking dirty and to open up.

20. Fix her boring BJs with the step guides.

21. Get her doing lots of small but new things, like wearing a butt plug and watch how sexual she becomes.

22. Get the ball rolling for her sexually and you may find that she starts taking things further for you.

23. Get her into a sexual frenzy like this client did and she'll welcome anal sex and even rimming.

24. Get a huge confidence boost to just go for it using the step by step guides in the program. Mid-sex blowjobs, fingering, being more decisive, etc.

25. Learn how to create a 'story' around the sex you have with your wife so she can fully engage in it, as women need story and emotion injected into the sex.

26. Get her to say things like this to you unprompted by completely changing her attitude towards sex.

Isn't it about time you had your wife doing stuff like this...?

Or like this...?

Or even like this...?

You can make all of these kinds of things happen but you've got to sexualise her and turn her into a 'freak' first.

Now Let's Take A Look At The Contents Of The Program?

Here’s a list of every single piece of content you will get when you start the Bedroom Leadership Manual:

Main Program Clients Get:

Stage 1 - Make Her Chase You For Sex

• How To Fully Regain Your Wife's Respect
• How To Fully Regain Your Wife's Attraction To You
• Masculinity Reset
• How Exactly To Put Your Mission First To Make Her Chase You
• How To Find Your Mission In Life
• How To Become Her Ideal Man
• How To Make Her NEED To Impress You
• Exactly How I Get My Wife To Chase Me For Sex

Stage 2 - Spike Her Emotions

• How To Create An Emotional Rollercoaster
• How To Make Her Feel 'Naughty' And Why
• How To Be More Mysterious
• How To Become The Stereotypical 'Bad Boy'
• 30 Date Ideas To Spike Her Emotions
• How To Imply Having Lots Of Sexual Experience
• How To Make Her Feel Like She's In A Movie/Novel
• How To Make Your Body Look More Masculine
• How To 'Brainwash' Her With Her Clothing
• How And Why To Create 'Micro-Sex Sessions' Everyday
• How To Get Her Into A Sexual Frenzy, AKA Present To The Moment
• How To Maintain Her Sexual Frenzy

Stage 3 - Become A Smooth Leader

• How To Give A Clear Command
• How To Use A 'Compliance Chain'
• How To Avoid Passive Aggressiveness
• How To Handle Her Light Objections Like A Pro
• How To Rebrand Yourself As A 'Dark Sex' Kind Of Guy

Stage 4 - Take Her On A Sexual Adventure

• How To Introduce Her To Giving Blowjobs
• How To Introduce Her To Giving Deepthroat Blowjobs
• How To Introduce Her To Giving Wetter Blowjobs
• How To Introduce Her To Anal Sex
• How To Introduce Her To Being Restrained By You
• How To Introduce Her To Being Choked And Wearing A Collar
• How To Introduce Her To Calling You Sir, Master Or Daddy
• How To Introduce Her To Consensual Non-Consent
• How To Introduce Her To Roleplaying
• How To Introduce Her To Having Her Hair Pulled
• How To Introduce Her To Swallowing Your Semen
• How To Introduce Her To Making Gagging Noises During A Blowjob
• How To Introduce Her To Mid-Sex Blowjobs
• How To Introduce Her To Public Sex
• How To Introduce Her To Rimming You
• How To Introduce Her To Screaming During Sex
• How To Introduce Her To Rough Play
• How To Introduce Her To Sending You Nudes
• How To Introduce Her To Talking Dirty To You
• How To Introduce Her To Wearing A Butt Plug
• How To Introduce Her To Wearing More Interesting Lingerie

Sexual Psychology Guides:

• How To Build A Hotter Lover In 12 Steps
• How To Comfort Her After Intense Sex
• How To Make Her Your ‘Slut’
• How To Make Her 100X More Girly
• Twenty Two Powerful Affirmations To Have Your Lover Repeat During Sex
• Three Ways To ‘Embarrass’ Your Wife During Sex
• How To Get Her Addicted To XYZ Activity During Sex
• How To Boost Your Wife’s Self Esteem Using Sex
• How To ‘Ruin’ Your Wife For Other Men
• The Power Of Nicknames During Sex And After Sex

Deluxe Program Clients Get:

All content from the main program, as well as access to the 'Ask Your Questions' section of my private community (hosted in Mighty Networks) where you can ask me your questions in a group setting.

Your account can be created anonymously for your privacy when asking questions.

You will also get access to these additional programs as well:

• Elite Performance Program (Get Harder, Last Longer, Feel Bigger, Fire Plenty)
• Animated Leadership Manual (120 GIF Guides)
• The Art Of Using Story Elements Program
• All Crash Courses, Present And Future

Private Community Clients Get:

All content listed above and access to a content portal hosted on Mighty Networks. You will be able to ask me as many questions as you like within the full version of my private community by posting your questions as comments on the guides they apply to.

You will also get a 1 on 1 chat with me when you first join the private community so I can answer any initial questions and point you in the right direction.

1 On 1 Coaching Clients Get:

EVERYTHING FROM THE PRIVATE COMMUNITY AND DIRECT 1 ON 1 ACCESS TO ME.

You can reach out to me via the private DMs whenever you like and I will make sure you're following all of the personalised steps that I give you.

Here's A Look Inside Of The Private Community/1 On 1 Coaching Portal And How It Is Laid Out...

So When Are You Going To Stop Putting Up With A 'Boring' And Sexually Unenthusiastic Wife?

The time is now and the opportunity is here.

• Put an end to those painfully awkward moments in bed where you feel like you’re walking on eggshells with her. Worried if she's going to reject you or get weird.

• Learn how to sexualise her and yourself every single day, even on the days that you don't have sex. This will massively boost her sexual confidence and open her up in bed.

• Take her through things she’s never done before so that you can take all of her innocence and bond her deeply to you.

• Remove pornography and all thoughts of cheating from your life by having a truly satisfying wife who you can connect with in a new way. This is the power of turning your marriage into a 'Sexual Adventure'.

• Break out of the 'vanilla nice guy' box that your wife has you in mentally when it comes to sex. And step into a highly sexual, 'Bad Boy' type persona in her mind, even if you've been stuck in a sexual rut for a decade.

• Stop blaming your wife for being vanilla in bed and start working through the steps you need to turn her into a freak. It is your responsibility after all.

• Get your wife enthusiastic about the sex you have together and start doing it 1-2 times per week minimum.

If You Want Her To Do Stuff Like This...

Then This Program And My Guidance Will Help You Do Just That.

Even if you have kids to raise, jobs to work and are currently stuck in a boring, monotonous routine with your wife, you can flip this around if you apply my step by step process.

REMEMBER THAT SHE IS NEVER GOING TO IMPROVE THE SEX FOR YOU... 

AND SHE'S NEVER GOING TO INTRODUCE NEW IDEAS FOR YOU

BECAUSE IT'S A MAN'S JOB TO INTRODUCE HER TO THESE THINGS.

CLICK THE 'BUY THIS' BUTTON AND LET ME HELP YOU START BUILDING A MORE SEXUALLY ENTHUSIASTIC WIFE NOW.